The Holy Hollow

But if hope is what we are after, then helpless is where we begin.  Not by contriving some false humility, but by paying attention to the hungering dark, the deep places for which that none of our holiday do-gooding is doing any good.

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There are Ghosts Watching

Any time we elevate our present circumstances to the point of timeless consequence, the joke is on us.  Any time we fail to see the cloud of unnamed witnesses around us, those faithful folks from centuries gone by and nations and cultures far from our own, we forget that our troubles and our successes are so local, so personal, so intimate, and so inherently now.

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5 Common Enneagram Errors

The Enneagram has become the bandwagon of all bandwagons.  This is not without merit.  The tool has insightful power at both the surface level and in the work of transformation.  Perhaps that is why its proliferation can be so irritating.  It’s usage in common forums can seem like a hyper-spiritualized personality test. Setting out to reawaken my own inner work, I began to see how I’d twisted the Enneagram to my own devices, dulling its scalpel-like ability to carve out the cancer in me.  Join me as we explore five ways I’ve misused the Enneagram and what I learned in the journey.

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There Is So Much Beauty Left

We long desperately to tap into some kind of do-something energy as a way of powering over these dark days.  The metaphor of renovation rings true because it means that with a little elbow grease, some money and a chipper attitude maybe we can make all this better.  It is difficult to recognize that we are in our own kind of Tower of Babel.

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We Don't Have to Fight in This War

We fly to the battlefields of the war because they require more armor, more weaponry and more certainty, all things which help us bury the cries of our own fragile wounded hearts. The pain of this week is found in the hundreds of thousands whose traumas have resurfaced past their defenses, those who saw in Kavanaugh the possibility of their own undoing project, and the incredible opportunity we all had to stand together and weep with those who weep.

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God Is Only Ever Here

God is never in the future you are imagining.  Because that future will never exist.

God is never in the past that you are regretting.  Because that past has been manicured of its truth, simplified, in order to match the narrative of your regrets. God is never in some next place waiting for us to arrive.  And he is never parked in some past version of ourselves waiting for us to get back there.  God is only ever here.

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Only Idols Fall

Men, with all their charisma, confidence, winsome ability and charm, even the ones who are not hiding nefarious secrets, are no stand-in for Jesus.  The human leaders who rise to prominence (and there will be more, whether they seek it or not) will always be less than our broken hearts want them to be.  They will be more insecure, frailer, more confused than we want them to be.  They will be—in some part—hidden by the mask of ego which we all hide behind.  As I am; as you are. 

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Most of the Time

So many of our stories hold onto us longer than we'd want.  As we face resurrection day, we must remind ourselves that the loss of the old life and the rising of the new is not license for amnesia.  Being made-new in Christ doesn't mean forgetting the past.  It means remembering it in light of what we now know to be true.  All our stories are vague generalities--most-of-the-times--which we inflict on every new day that rises.  Resurrection Day (Easter) is the reminder that there is an "all of the time" story which doesn't erase, but re-interprets the most-of-the-times we are so busy remembering. 

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You're Not the Boss of Me

As long as we equate freedom with increased options, we will always pay a high personal price for those options. The freedom to be anyone, choose anything and any time wages deep war against our evolutionary psyches, hard-wired for community, intimacy, geographic constancy and the safety of the familiar. It is my hope that over time we realize that fewer is more. A world where we accept a poverty of options in exchange for the richness of the moment we are already in, the life we are already living, the people we have already found.

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